Editor's Note: For five years, Deborah and her disabled son struggled to find secure housing here in San Jose after a divorce, car accident and job loss uprooted their lives. They lived out of their car in a church-run safe parking program before moving to a permanent supportive housing program which was mismanaged and did not offer reliable security. My name is Deborah T. and I was homeless for five years in San Jose, living in my car with my son after a divorce, a car accid